Tuesday, May 17, 2016

What Type of Home Is For You?



 

In each group of  five statements, choose the two things, but only two statements, from each group. Make two choices even if it may seem difficult in some instances.

When  you have chosen a statement, put it number on your blank piece of paper in scoring.


A- Thing you Like to do

1-  Go to a Parent- Teachers' committee meeting

2- Attend a neighborhood movie.

3- Go to a home furnishing exhibit.

5- Listen to a lecture on the international situation.


6- Read the local- society section of the newspaper.

7- Read the editorial section of the newspaper.

9- Read the local news in a newspaper

10- Read the household-hints section of a newspaper.


11- Shop for a spring hat

12- Browse through old stores for antiques

13- Shop for inexpensive secondhand chairs

15- Shop for a beautiful but simple oriental scroll


16- Work in your garden

17- Rummage through old boxe

18- Plan a dinner for a family or friends

19-write letters to relatives in others cities

20- Write an article or commentary for a professional journal.


21- Select the materials for making some new curtains

22- Make the curtains according to your taste, and hang them

23- Explain others how curtains are selected, made and hung

24- Show friends the room in which your new curtains are of central interest.

25- Find the best decorator to handle curtain problems.


B- Things you like or don't like

26- Admiration from your friends

27- Loyalty from your friends

28- Respect from your friends

30- Attention from your friends


31- Picnics

32- Cocktail parties

33- Cafeteria meals

34- Tea Room luncheon

35- Buffet diners


36 Mathematics

37- Literature

38- Dramatics

39- Social psychology

40- Applied sciences


41- Optimists

42- Polite people

43- Witty people

44- Logical people

45- Thrifty practical people


46- A job with a respectable-sounding title

47- Steady employment

48- Congenial personal relations on the job

49- Opportunity to try out your ideas.

50- Variety in the work to avoid monotony


Describe yourself


51- A good mixer socially

52- Thorough in every detail

53- Completely reliable

54- Quite aggressive

55- Always natural and at ease


56- Have a great many friends

57- Have few, but close, friends

58- Inclined to be quiet and a little self-effacing

59- Make friends casually under almost any conditions

60 Enjoy and depend, to some extent, on the attention of others


61- Like to argue, but even-tempered

62- Quixote conciliatory in most situations

63- Enjoy being different from the run of the mill

64- Go along with the crowd if personal matters are not involved

65. Make every effort to avoid or forestall disputes


66- Quite precise about details

67- Leave details to others whenever possible

68- Very good at conceiving and developing plans

69- Best at administering plans already established

70- Like to " plan as you go along"


71- Good at looking from every possible viewpoint

72- Good at adapting old ideas or materials to new uses

73- Good at thinking up unusual and new ideas quickly

74- Good at spotting defects or deficiencies in daily situations

75 Good at breaking away completely from habitual thinking


76- Are objective and open-minded

77- Have strong opinions and are not afraid to back them up

78- Enjoy telling jokes to groups of people

79- Like to play around with ideas, especially novel ones

80- Do not care much about other people's opinions about yourself.


81- Like to talk with two or three people with similar interests

82- Enjoy being a part of a fairly large social group

83- Like private chats with influential persons

84- Like to chat with old friends, one at a time.

85- Enjoy talking to anybody, if he is not pressed for time.


86- Like to live in the city, particularly New York

87- Prefer the characteristics of suburban life.

88- Life to be isolated from noise, people, centers of activity.

89- Restlessness urges change of location every few years.

90- Like " elbow room" even if the place may be a bit run down


91- Foreigners stimulate and enrich your life.

92- Distrustful of " foreigners" though perhaps you like some

93- Find it almost impossible to answer an ambiguous question

94- Have no trouble at all answering ambiguous questions.

95- Consider possible results before deciding questions of ethics.


96- Take life very seriously, regret that others don't' do so more

97- Take life lightly 's day at a time

98- Prefer to be a big frog in a little pond

99- Would rather be a little frog in a big pond

100- Look on life as an experiment- no one knows the answer


101- Outwardly a good loser, but it rankles for a long time inside

102- A hard loser in every respect- and show it.

103- Easy come, easy go-a good loser with no grudges

104- Act like a poor loser at the time, but really accept it philosophically

105- Very unemotional-act and feel almost the same whether you win or lose.


106- Consider most people, "the mass," rather stupide

107- Consider almost everyone, saint or sinner, basically good.

108- Consider all but friends potentially, if not actually, suspicious.

109- Accept everyone as a good person until proved wrong

110- Consider only people with personalities as "worthwhile"


111- Believe in an actual physical Hell in the hereafter

112- Thin most people should believe in Hell  for their own good

114- Feel that actually everybody will really go to Heaven

115- Do not care whether there is Hell or not.


116- Are tactful out of an inner sense of kindness

117- Want to be tactful, but in being earnest, sometimes lose tact

118-  Tact is an instrument- to be used where it will to be most good

119- Feel honesty comes before tact, except in special situations

120- Kindly-rarely conscious of the concept of tact


121- Thin-skinned feelings are fairly hurt

122- Thick-skinned; not bothered by what others say about you

123- Become flustered when under observation or supervision

124- Like sharing rewards and responsibility as member of a "team"

125- Accept supervision only if the supervisor is a qualified superior


Scoring Instructions For the Test


The scoring is based on five Types of homes. Each choice you made in the test counts one point for one or another of the types. Below are the home types with a brief description of each- and the test answer that count for that particular type


   Type A - Contemporary Conventional

This type of home is best exemplified by the average real estate dealer's offering in a city or suburban development. House is usually pretty new, though it may need some repairs. Designed for efficiency in modern life, although rooms are likely to be small and boxlike compared with older houses. Many electrical gadgets to reduce the drudgery of household chores. Often comparatively new materials will have been used. Ceilings likely to be low, and little space between your house and your neighbors'. You may be able to mutually "enjoy" home-clean, convenient- but not inspiring in spirit.

scoring points 1,9,11,18,24,26,31,39,41,46,54,56,64,69,71,78,83,87,95,99,101,107,112,118,124.



Type B - Old Fashioned

Usually found in smaller cities, or in the older sections of a city. Likely to be rather small in terms of number of rooms, but the rooms may be more spacious than in type A, the ceilings higher, and there may be both an attic and cellar. Antiques and heirlooms may dominate the furnishings. There is likely to be a piano, and perhaps no TV. There will be a tendency toward fussiness and ornamentation in furnishings. Bonheur or Landseer. Doilies, bric-a-brac, and quaint pieces of fur geared to the demands of modern life.

scoring points 3,6,13,19,22,27,34,37,42,48,53,58,65,66,74,77,84,88,92,96,102,108,11,116,121.


Type C - Modernistic, Sophisticated Severe Chic, efficient.

A minimum of ornamentation, and a maximum of built-in gadgets. An emphasis on efficiency and expensive elegance. Much glass used to bring in direct light from outside. Ingenius use of concealed artificial light. Straight and smooth sleek surfaces predominate, Objects of oriental origin often used for decoration. Interior itself may reflect a strong oriental influence. Severe, sophisticated and often charming.

scoring points: 5, 7,15,20,25,29,35,36,44,49,52,57,61,68,75,76,81,86,93,100,105,106,113,119,125.


Type D - " Barn into a House"

This house gives maximum expression to the owner's personality. House may be actually or figuratively made from a barn. Many old objects have been converted to uses entirely unrelated to their previous functions (i.e., a spinning wheel made over into a floor lamp). Extensive use often made of bargain materials, used originally. House usually in a state of change and alteration. Represents creative activity- High personalized.

scoring points 4,10,12,17,21,30,32,38,43,50,51,60,63,70,72,79,82,89,91,98,104,110,115,117,123.



Type E- " House into a Barn"

This type of house is large, amorphous and follows no set style or design- although at one time it may have. Occupant is one who wants room and freedom from restrictions and social pressures of all kinds. House may have been an old mansion in a currently unfashionable part of town, now repaired and functional, more than ever before. Very little reflection of the occupant's personality except for its practicableness and haphazard style. Has an air of informality- nothing done for the impression it will make. A good place to work, rest, and pursue special interests. maximum of space, minimum of planning and care.

scoring points 2,8,14,16,23,28,33,40,45,47,55,59,62,67,73,80,85,90,94,97,103,109,114,120,122.


Evaluate your test


21 or more points: A definite compatibility between your personality and interest pattern and the type of home indicated. Spend a good bit of time investigating these possibilities further in the light of your own situation.


16 to 20 points: This type of home should receive consideration too. But keep a wary eye open for characteristics in the house that might not quite suit you.


11 to 15 points: This type of home has both advantages and disadvantages about being evenly balanced for you.


6 to 10 points: There are substantial elements in your interest and personality patterns that do not fit this type of home very well. If this does not seem to agree with your personal feelings, check into the situation carefully.


0 to 5 points: Such a wide discrepancy between your personality and interest patterns and those that appear to be suited to this type of house suggests that you spend most of your time and effort considering types of houses on which you made higher scores.


From the book : Decorating Begins with You by Mary Jean Alexander


Monday, November 16, 2015

My Praying Pleasure

I grew up believing that any outside power was responsible for everything that happens to us.
I learned that I should pray for my problems.
When someone told me:
- "Please pray for me!" I knew that the person was in trouble.

How many of my acquaintances did not ask me to pray for them, the prayer request was for someone in trouble.
- "Please pray for my uncle who is sick!"
However I had the good luck to find a religion that teaches the philosophy that: ". We are the ones responsible for everything that happens to us"
Everything is a matter of cause and effect.
But even with this philosophical wisdom. I kept praying for my problems.
In Brazil we has a popular phrase:
"The more one reads, the more problem appears"
But once again, I had good luck, and I learned that everything we focus on increases.
So I let go of the habit to pray for my problems, and began to pray with gratitude.
And when I started to pray in gratitude for all that I have.
Prayer becomes pleasurable.
Please just ask my prayer for you, or to someone else in positive situations!
- "Thillai pray for me, I was promoted in my job!"
- "Thillai prays for my uncle, because he won the lottery!"

I only pray, for the sake of praying.
Praying is wonderful.
The sun always shines while I pray.
I pray every morning welcoming the new day as if I was reborn.
I feel a great power working within me, when I pray.
When I pray I envision greatness and think positive about me or anyone else.
And greatness appears first in my heart, and then the world.
For me prayer is a time of enjoyment, not begging.
I pray for wisdom.
My prayer is to understand that everything that happens is for my good.
I pray to understand my soul, to listen to it and follow it.
I pray to become the best version of me.
I open my heart to all healing. I release my angst
Praying is my way to send positive energy to the world.
Pray allows me to increase the power of my energy frequency.
How many will pray for the rich, the fortunate and the healthy?
It is my prayer of thanks! and Wow!
I accept all the graces, even if they seem woes.
My prayer is my yes to life and death.
My life is important and has been proposed. I always get help with a second prayer.
Everything in my life is the answer to my prayer.
When the praises go up, blessings come down.
Please pray for his health, his good fortune, and learn to have tenderness for money.
Pray for the happiness of mankind!
And I guarantee you will be happy and bring happiness to society.
Because it failed to spread negative energy in the world.
And I just pray for your happiness, your success and your accomplishments and nothing else!


 
Let Go and Let God . Olivia Newton John


Thank you for enjoying my page. I want to know about all your blessings.

Happy Day!


When you put happiness in the center of your life, you become stronger

while facing life’s challenges.  

When you put happiness first, this happiness comes in front of everything.

 You have the solutions for everything in your life.

Your  thought, speech and behavior are like seeds that become implanted in your lives. 

Life is  a continuum of past, present and future lives.

Our actions at any moment become part of the continuum of cause and effect. 

Unhappiness,  are impoopportunity to use our power of choice, and develop and strengthen ourselves, to be Happy!

By persevering in happiness despite hardships, we find deeper meaning in living.

With every problem we overcome through happiness, we create a model for winning in life. 

Your actions in happiness, challenging your destiny, become examples and inspiration

for countless others. 

You can appreciate every circumstance and challenge.  When you are determined to

live with the conviction that your mission here in this life is to be happy.

Lead people to happiness

When our fundamental mindset changes, we ourselves change.

And when we change, the environment and the world change, too.

Every activity in your life  is an opportunity to lead people to happiness. 

Develop a gold vision for your life. 

A life of happiness.

We were born here to be happy and to learn to administer our own power.

So only today, Be Happy!

Everything that happens has meaning. So today only, Be Happy!

It is important to face your struggles with joy.

So only today, Be Happy!

Those who have wept the most bitterly have the right to become the happiest.

So only today, Be Happy!

You have the power to transform everything into happiness, change the tears you have

shed into glistening jewels of good fortune.

So today only, Be Happy!

Wisdom is  experiencing happiness and fulfillment in life.

So today only, Be Happy!

Do not give your power away. So Today only, Be happy!

Be involved with worthy people, or allow yourself to be candor by others.

So today only, Be Happy!

You win by your own gratitude toward others.

So only today, Be Happy!

You are on your path in this lifetime; when you are loyal with yourself.

So only Today, Be Happy!

Please make today the best day of your life!

  



My Book of knowledge

I took the teachings that I had learned in the course of my lifetime, ground and sifted them, blended them together and compounded the book of knowledge.
My teaching is for you to perceive the true nature of your life.
The blessing that you will obtain by learning and practicing this knowledge is infinity...
After you excel in study, start practicing what you have learned. when you practice this knowledge you should be aware that it becomes a more joyful thing than everything else. You will never fail to prosper when you apply this knowledge.
You will enjoy merit beyond measure. How splendid and wonderful.
These words will never prove false.
This is your season of happiness.
You are cherished by love.
I write the book for the happiness of all humanity.
A mind now clouded by negativity is like a tarnished mirror, but when you polish it, then it becomes like a clear mirror.
Learning the correct teaching, believing it, keeping the precepts, engaging in meditation, practicing assiduously, renouncing one's attachments, and reflecting on oneself.
Strengthen your knowledge day by day and month after month. Substitute faith for wisdom. If a teacher has a good disciple, both will gain the fruit of enlightenment.
A person can know another's mind  by listening to the voice. This is because the physical aspect reveals the spiritual aspect.
If you hope to learn and master, then you need to  devote time to learning.
In creation three things are required: A good teacher, a good student, and a good teaching.
Wisdom means illuminating and manifesting the reality that you desire.
I'm the richest woman in all of the present day. I have dedicated my life to teaching my knowledge. The knowledge I finance returns to me.
I do not give my freedom away,  I do not try to control others. I only try to teach.
I focus on my knowledge. I'm responsible for the knowledge I bring and for the knowledge I give permission to come.
A flea can trouble a lion more than a lion can trouble a flea.
Those who accomplish great things pay attention to little ones.
My biology and knowledge are the results of my great biography that I created when others were sleeping.